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 # node-sql
 _sql string builder for node_
 
+Let's be honest - hand generating SQL is no fun, especially in a language which has clumsy support for multi-line strings.
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+But SQL is so good.  We need SQL.  So let's save the day and generate it with a jQuery-esque fluent interface.
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+Maybe it's still not fun, but at least it's _less not fun_.  That's at least worth a participation award.
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 ## examples
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 ## contributing
 
-I __love__ contributions.  If you want to contribute here's what you do:
+I __love__ contributions.  If I could, I would write __love__ 500 times, but that would be readme bloat.
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+Still, that's how much I love them.  Let's work _together_ on this.
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+If you want to contribute here's what you do:
 
 1. fork the repo
 2. `git pull https://github.com/(your_username)/node-sql`
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 __Seriously:__
 
-    your contributions and ideas >= my contributions and ideas.
+    your contributions >= my contributions
 
 I definitely need help with mysql and sqlite syntax.  I'm not very familiar...so that's always a good place to start.