if(/*(m_mode != NodeMode::Host || p->m_caps != 0x01) &&*/chrono::steady_clock::now()>p->m_connect+chrono::milliseconds(old))// don't throw off new peers; peer-servers should never kick off other peer-servers.
if(chrono::steady_clock::now()>p->m_connect+chrono::milliseconds(old))// don't throw off new peers; peer-servers should never kick off other peer-servers.